Everybody has seen most propbably " kite and line " allegorical story, what the story says is a kite flies footloosely in the sky, he sees bird hovers sky, he also envisages birdie not to suffer a tie to fly bit higher euqally, then he flounces off kite line desperately manacle, exert all one's strength ground upgrade flies. At this moment flaw is blown, his body sways along with wind, "Alas " fall heavily on the ground. We resemble kite, the tie resembles this kite string, look be like controlled us, it helps in fact we make clear direction, fly higher, go further.
想必大家都看过《风筝和线》的寓言故事，故事说的是一只风筝自由自在地飞在天空，他看到鸟儿翱翔天空，他也想像小鸟一样不受约束飞得更高点，于是他拼命挣脱风筝线的束缚，使劲地往上飞。这时一阵狂风吹来，他的身子随风摇摆，“哎呀”一声重重地摔到地上。我们就像风筝，约束就像这根风筝线，看似控制了我们，实则它帮助我们明确方向，飞得更高，走得更远。
The premise that is not restrained is absolutely self-discipline. Double since decreasing policy to carry out, lesson burden of the student is reduced somewhat, study pressure also is reduced somewhat. A lot of students begin to indulge his, with " did not work " for excuse, do not wish to learn, do not go learning, do not put the certainly of the parent, teacher and tie on the heart, achievement drops disapprovingly. Watch those students that control oneself at ordinary times instead, they still restrain themselves strictly according to their standard, study not only loosen without a bit, ask instead taller, let oneself become more outstanding. I think, double decrease policy publish not be apolaustic ego type absolutely to reduce study quality and study time, the more outstanding talented person that recruits in the round to train body and mind however, let a student more time will do more significant business.( ZuOwEnBa.nET )
不被约束的前提是绝对的自律。双减政策实施以来，学生的课业负担有所减轻，学习压力也有所减小。许多学生便开始放纵自己，以“没有作业”为借口，不愿学习，不去学习，把家长、老师的管教和约束不放在心上，成绩下降不以为然。反观那些平时自律的学生，他们依然按照自己的标准严格约束自己，学习不但没有丝毫放松，反而要求更高，让自己变得更优秀。我想，双减政策的出台绝不是放纵自我式的减学习质量和学习时间，而是为了培养身心全面发展的更加优秀的人才，让学生有更多时间来做更有意义的事情。
The tie is form of another kind of protection. Parents, teacher always can teach us the truth of a few experience of life, life, they can tell us what ought not to do, we face parents advising in earnest always is impatient, do not put their word on the heart. Also do not care because of ours just about, those who bring about us to just understand parents after taking a lot of roundabout way is not easy, understanding them is to protect us better actually, prevent us to be harmed. We often can use the experience of life that our immature world outlook goes to oppugning a division commander a few years, carry out a proof, we are wrong, what what the teacher does parents and everything is for us health grows.
约束是另一种保护形式。父母、老师总是会教给我们一些生活经验、人生的道理，他们会告诉我们什么该做什么不该做，我们面对父母的苦口婆心总是不耐烦，不把他们的话放在心上。也正是因为我们的不在乎，导致我们在走了许多弯路之后才明白父母的不易，理解他们其实是为了更好地保护我们，防止我们受到伤害。我们常常会用自己并不成熟的世界观去质疑师长几十年的生活经验，实践证明，我们错了，父母和老师所做的一切都是为了我们健康成长。
Our everybody is kite, and parents is that fine the line that grows again, we cannot flounce off parents " manacle " , the implicit care in be being manacled because of that, take care of, care, blessing, like and love, I hope this " manacle " can accompany us forever, it is all the time like them beside me same, let me feel the warmth of love.
我们每个人都是风筝，而父母就是那根又细又长的线，我们不能挣脱父母的“束缚”，因为那束缚中隐含着关心、照顾、牵挂、祝福、喜欢和爱，我希望这“束缚”能够永远陪伴我们，就像他们一直在我身边一样，让我感觉到爱的温暖。
The tie lets us experience the happiness of the life. Common saying says, "Without custom, do not become circumference " . Yes, we live in this big collective, be about to abide by collective regulation and legal laws and regulations. Just think, when we cross a street, the time that if grouse,waits for red light is too long, when all traffic regulation not answer when existence, what can you turn into appearance? Will naturally appear liaison man is troubled and crowded, the phenomenon such as hair of traffic accident frequency, this is very terrible. Same, if did not have the tie of legal laws and regulations, so the society runs amuck with respect to meeting burglar, life safety does not have safeguard again. Restrain and expose completely what dark side of human nature did not have regulation, what distinction do the person in those days and animal have again? Live together with animal, can you imagine? Watch instead so, the tie is not an umbrella, and what be protected then is easy and comfortable, be happy?
约束让我们体会到生活的幸福。俗话说，“没有规矩，不成方圆”。是的，我们生活在这个大集体中，就要遵守集体的规则和法律法规。试想，当我们过马路时，如果埋怨等红灯的时间太长，当一切交通规则都不复存在时，会变成什么样子呢？势必会出现交通混乱而拥挤，车祸频发等现象，这是非常可怕的。同样，若是没有了法律法规的约束，那么社会就会窃贼横行，生命安全再无保障。人性的黑暗面没有了规则的约束而完全暴露，那时的人与兽又有什么区别？与兽生存在一起，你能想象吗？如此反观，约束不正是一把保护伞，而那被保护的安逸，不就是幸福吗？
The tie is not the against the wind that prevents us to advance, help the engine that we fly to higher however. Morning glory climbs to be worn in fence, not tendril not branch. Because it knows, the tie of fence, make it depends on somewhat, thrive, this is happy tie. Those who serve as a student we, do not need to restrain?
约束不是阻止我们前进的逆风，而是帮助我们飞得更高的引擎。牵牛花爬在篱笆架上，不蔓不枝。因为它知道，篱笆的约束，使它有所依附，茁壮成长，这是幸福的约束。作为学生的我们，难道不需要约束吗？